Gilbert Soba
Sexologist
A safe, warm and non-judgemental space to talk about intimacy, desire, relationships and sexual wellbeing. Consultations online and in person, in English, French and Norwegian.
Support for you, and for the two of you
Every consultation is confidential, respectful and shaped around what you need.
Individual consultations
A private space to explore desire, intimacy, confidence and sexual wellbeing, at your own pace.
Couples support
Help for partners to talk openly, understand each other and find their way back to closeness.
LGBTQIA+ affirmative
All orientations, identities and relationship forms are welcome. You never have to explain or defend who you are.
Sexuality is part of who we are
Questions about sex and intimacy are human, and often hard to share. Together we look at what you are experiencing, at your pace, without shame.
Desire and intimacy
Low or mismatched desire, emotional distance, or wanting to feel closer and more present with a partner.
Relationships and communication
Talking openly about needs and boundaries, rebuilding trust, and finding a shared language for intimacy.
Sexual wellbeing
Worries about performance, pain, arousal or body image, explored with care and referred on when medical help is needed.
Identity and self-understanding
Exploring orientation, identity and what feels right for you, in a respectful and accepting space.
Culture, faith and family
When upbringing, religion or migration shape how you feel about sexuality, we can talk about both worlds.
Life changes
New relationships, parenthood, illness, stress or ageing can change intimacy. We find a way forward together.
Online or in person, in three languages
Online consultations
Secure video sessions wherever you are in the world. Talk from home, in a setting where you feel comfortable.
In-person consultations
Meet face to face in a calm and private setting in Oslo. Location details are shared when you book.
English
Français
Norsk
- Get in touchSend a short message about what you would like help with. Share only what you are comfortable with.
- A first conversationWe agree on a time and on online or in-person, and I answer any questions you have.
- Your consultationA confidential session focused on you or on you and your partner, with practical next steps.
A safe space for everyone
Whoever you are, whoever you love and wherever you come from, you are welcome here. Every body, identity, culture and relationship is met with respect, confidentiality and care.
Workshops, lectures and programmes
I work with NGOs, schools, universities and organisations to make conversations about sexuality, relationships and inclusion open, informed and safe.
- Workshops for staff, students and communities
- Lectures and talks
- Diversity and inclusion programmes
- NGO and community programmes
Warmth, openness and respect
I was born in Cameroon and have made Oslo my home. My own journey between Africa and Europe taught me how deeply culture, family and belonging shape the way we see our bodies, our relationships and our desires.
Body, mind and spirit
Alongside sexology I offer holistic and alternative healing as a complementary practice. It supports, but never replaces, medical care.
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Read, reflect, and take the next step
Free articles on intimacy, relationships and wellbeing.
What happens in a first sexology consultation?
A first appointment can feel like a big step. This is what to expect, alone or as a couple, online or in Oslo.
Read the articleHow to talk about desire with your partner
A calm, curious conversation about desire is often the first step back to closeness. Here is how to start it.
Read the articleReady to talk?
Reach out in confidence. I reply personally to every message.